Hello, I am João Barros, psychoanalyst and writer specializing in psychoanalysis articles. Today we will talk about a very interesting theme: the edic triangulation and its importance for socialization. Edipic triangulation is a concept developed by psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud, who describes the relationship between a child and his parents as a triangle of desire and rivalry.
What is the edic triangulation?
Edipic triangulation occurs when a small child is attracted to one parent and sees the other father as a rival. This usually happens between the age of 3 and 6, when the child begins to develop his sexual identity and to understand relations between men and women.
At this stage, the child may feel competitive with the same-sex father for mother’s attention and affection, or vice versa. This rivalry is normal and is part of a child’s healthy development.
How does the edge triangulation affect socialization?
The edic triangulation plays an important role in the socialization of the child, as it helps to shape its perception of social and sexual relations. In experiencing this healthy rivalry with parents, the child learns to deal with feelings of jealousy, possessiveness and love.
In addition, the edic triangulation helps the child to understand social rules and cultural norms related to sex and intimacy. This is fundamental for the child to develop in a healthy and well adapted adult.
Consequences of a dysfunctional edge triangulation
However, when edic triangulation does not occur healthy, there may be negative consequences for the child’s development. For example, if a parent is excessively possessive or jealous, it can lead to self -esteem problems and difficulties in future relationships.
Similarly, whether the mother is distant or not available, the child may have difficulty forming healthy emotional ties with others. It is important for parents to be aware of these dynamics and work to create a safe and loving environment for the development of their children.
Practical implications for education and socialization
Understanding edic triangulation is fundamental for educators and parents who want to help children develop healthily. This may include strategies such as encouraging open communication, establishing clear limits, and promoting activities that foster cooperation and mutual respect.
In addition, it is important to recognize that each child is unique and can have different needs and challenges. By working with children individually and attentive to their emotional needs, we can help them become safe, confident, and well adapted adults.
In short, edic triangulation is a fundamental concept to understand how children develop and socialize. By recognizing the importance of this dynamic and working to create safe and loving environments, we can help next generations grow healthy and happy.
